Agreed and not signed to the OP. My main monk does plenty of damage, has awsome AC, Evasion, Stunning fist DC of 42, Kukan-Do DC of 40 (will save), Bypasses DR of 90% of the mobs and bosses out there, and supplies USEFULL buffs to the party.
Do I hit as hard as a Barb when I crit? No... and I SHOULDNT BE! But I can hit alot faster, stun them quicker (sometimes before I even get there), and inta-kill at the touch of a button. I can even stun/hold undead! Vampires HATE me!!!
Monks have access to some of the coolest gear out there, with some of the biggest benifits. While we don't have alot of named handwraps, the one we do have are unbelievable (Epic Wraps of Light, Stonedust Handwraps).
If your monk is not dishing out near top DPS, and has a excellent survivabilaty rate, then you need to look at your stats and/or gear and reroll.