While these numbers are nice and all, when giving general advice to a newer player for a class statements like these are, for all intensive purposes, stupid. I'm not trying to insult you. I'm just saying that over 99 out of every 100 monks should not and would not be considered a tank. If yours is, kudos, but many should not expect this unless they plan their build with this end in mind.
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Also, Re: SS vs Handwraps
One thing that people fail to take into consideration when comparing hand wraps and other weapons (kamas/ss) are that offhand attacks with hand wraps apply your FULL STRENGTH BONUS. Kamas/SS only apply 1/2 of your str bonus on all offhand attacks. In addition, you lose the ability to use stunning fist while other weapons are equipped.
Hand wraps are the superior choice at this point. A fully geared monk can get 2d14 base damage on their fists and the CC ss's don't even compare. You can make a SS using ninja spy for flavor, but the dps comparison isn't really something that can be discussed at this point. Even using Lightning Strike SS's doesn't work, because a hand wrap user could utilize the mabar wraps for a comparable effect.