+1 EXACTLY what I was trying to remind us of earlier. The original poster prefers two weapon fighting for his own reasons. Preference is generally the first ingredient of a good play experience:
The fact that it's still quite in contention which is the min/max "best" is probably a good sign that your toon is going to be just fine.
Last time I checked whoever goes home with the runner up prize on the theoretical DPS chart is still generally #1 DPS in their party ... whether he is two weapon fighting or two handed! =)
P.S. - And the runner up ain't 2wf ! *duck*