Gonna list down what I currently have while tanking to make things less abusive to the eye!
-Drow fleshie palemaster
-496 hp is what I can attain currently unless I get better eq but I believe 330+ is enough
-45% cold absorption eq
-Fireshield (fire)
-Epic robe of shadows (12% crit means death aura crits more and you can negative energy burst less)
-Maximize, empower, quicken, extend are on while heighten is off as it down contribute to healing and just makes your heals cost more! D: (you can do without empower if you didn't take it or extend if you've learnt to live without it)
And that's it! What I use to tank on normal- never tried elite

You can do it with less or more as long as it works!
Now the how to part:
-When everyones ready, run to base of stairs, fully buffed and equipped with whatever you have and put down firewall on th stairs.
-Party runs past you into position while you double check you have the necessities

-Shadows arrive, pass you, into fwall and then back to you
-With buffs and equipment their aura hits for 50-60 every 2 seconds if I remember right, with death aura on some of this is back almost immediately
-Negative energy burst when you're about 200 hp down from full (my burst heals about 170 I think) basically you have to decide this part yourself. If you have more hp you can heal less as your aura will keep you up for quite awhile I think, if you have less hp then heal more

-Do not move/jump as doing that is like running into a blade barrier again and again (you take damage every few seconds when standing still, even more if you move)
-Replenish your firewalls (could use a few tips here myself! I always manually target the staircase and fwall but once the shadows arrive they block my view!

so far I've never had to place more than 2- once at start, second when shadows depart. But what if I'm in a group with slow dps and need more?)
And tadaa part 2 complete! Sure it requires more from the player eq wise but tanking is more reliable than kiting in the sense that you eliminate 'randomness'. When shadows suddenly appear in one of the corridors you're passing even the best might not react well to it.
Tanking allows you to be in full control the entire time ensuring a 100% success.
*Disclaimer: only works on normal and hard! I'll update when I get to do elite or someone else can update it! I'm sure it's been done before
