As a helf you have 2 uses of diplomacy to shed aggro, then do your extra sneak damage from your rogue dil.
The build here is double TR for the extra build points and rogue past life. I put in a supreme tome at level 7 but all you really need is a +2 dex tome to qualify for twf feats. Also you need +2 ch to qualify for divine might 3 but those points can be moved to other good enhancements like human versatility. Without the double TR you lose 2 str and past life goodies which isn't that big a deal.
Planned weapons are scimitars for normal use, rocksplitters for epix. I know scimitars are gimpier than khops but I'm planning on scims for flavor, also you get the +1 hit from undying faith. To get khops swap rogue past life with exotic khop proficiency.
Let me know what you think.
Code:Character Plan by DDO Character Planner Version 3.8.0 DDO Character Planner Home Page Level 20 Lawful Good Half-Elf Male (18 Paladin \ 2 Monk) Hit Points: 338 Spell Points: 272 BAB: 19\19\24\29\29 Fortitude: 23 Reflex: 19 Will: 16 Starting Feat/Enhancement Abilities Base Stats Modified Stats (36 Point) (Level 1) (Level 20) Strength 16 24 Dexterity 15 18 Constitution 14 16 Intelligence 8 10 Wisdom 10 12 Charisma 16 20 Tomes Used +2 Tome of Strength used at level 7 +2 Tome of Dexterity used at level 7 +2 Tome of Constitution used at level 7 +2 Tome of Intelligence used at level 7 +2 Tome of Wisdom used at level 7 +2 Tome of Charisma used at level 7 Starting Feat/Enhancement Base Skills Modified Skills Skills (Level 1) (Level 20) Balance 6 16 Bluff 3 6 Concentration 2 5 Diplomacy 7 29 Disable Device n/a n/a Haggle 3 6 Heal 0 2 Hide 2 5 Intimidate 3 6 Jump 6 12 Listen 0 3 Move Silently 2 5 Open Lock n/a n/a Perform n/a n/a Repair -1 1 Search -1 1 Spot 0 2 Swim 3 8 Tumble 3 6 Use Magic Device n/a n/a Level 1 (Monk) Feat: (Half-Elf Dilettante) Half-Elf Dilettante: Rogue Feat: (Past Life) Past Life: Fighter Feat: (Past Life) Past Life: Rogue Feat: (Selected) Toughness Feat: (Monk Bonus) Two Weapon Fighting Level 2 (Monk) Feat: (Monk Bonus) Power Attack Level 3 (Paladin) Feat: (Selected) Past Life: Sneak of Shadows Level 6 (Paladin) Feat: (Selected) Extend Spell Level 9 (Paladin) Feat: (Selected) Improved Critical: Slashing Weapons Level 12 (Paladin) Feat: (Selected) Improved Two Weapon Fighting Level 15 (Paladin) Feat: (Selected) Greater Two Weapon Fighting Level 18 (Paladin) Feat: (Selected) Oversized Two Weapon Fighting Enhancement: Paladin Attack Boost I Enhancement: Undying Call Enhancement: Follower of the Undying Court Enhancement: Improved Rogue Dilettante I Enhancement: Improved Rogue Dilettante II Enhancement: Human Adaptability Strength I Enhancement: Human Improved Recovery I Enhancement: Human Versatility I Enhancement: Way of the Faithful Hound I Enhancement: Paladin Courage of Good I Enhancement: Paladin Courage of Good II Enhancement: Paladin Divine Sacrifice I Enhancement: Paladin Divine Sacrifice II Enhancement: Paladin Exalted Smite I Enhancement: Paladin Exalted Smite II Enhancement: Paladin Exalted Smite III Enhancement: Paladin Exalted Smite IV Enhancement: Paladin Extra Lay on Hands I Enhancement: Paladin Extra Lay on Hands II Enhancement: Paladin Extra Lay on Hands III Enhancement: Paladin Extra Smite Evil I Enhancement: Paladin Extra Smite Evil II Enhancement: Paladin Extra Smite Evil III Enhancement: Paladin Extra Smite Evil IV Enhancement: Paladin Knight of the Chalice I Enhancement: Paladin Knight of the Chalice II Enhancement: Paladin Knight of the Chalice III Enhancement: Racial Toughness I Enhancement: Racial Toughness II Enhancement: Paladin Energy of the Templar I Enhancement: Paladin Energy of the Templar II Enhancement: Paladin Charisma I Enhancement: Paladin Charisma II Enhancement: Half-Elf Rogue Dexterity I Enhancement: Paladin Toughness I Enhancement: Paladin Toughness II Enhancement: Paladin Divine Might I Enhancement: Paladin Divine Might II Enhancement: Paladin Divine Might III