Actually.......what we did back in the old days is worked as a team over voice chat, brought pots so the cleric didnt feel like they were being a slave to teh group, and tactically advanced through a quest. we took notes (like in a PnP game) and planned how to pull monsters and take them down as efficiently as possible. we also did millions of loot runs for well-sought after items such as +5 full plate, +5 tower shields, or <GASP> +5 Mithral full plate!?! omg, there was a number of people that had THOSE you could count on one hand back then.
The problem with you young whipper snappers is that you didnt have to run a quest a unch of times to get the loot you need, so you didnt have to run the quests as much as we did, with the limited resources we had. Efficiency of resources was the key, not time.
Nowadays, like in my above example, if a new player has to wait for more than 5 minutes, he dc's cuz he's bored.
We used to just TALK to each other, and get to know each other.
now get off my lawn.