There's 3 of us who are constantly playing DDO together as a party, only we haven't made it past lvl3 together because we get our butts handed to us in quite a few quests (and in the wilderness), even with 2 of us bringing in hirelings and the 3rd bringing in a summoned monster.
Our party consists of a rogue/monk, fighter WF, and drow cleric, with hirelings of a cleric, wizard (or sorcerer), and/or barbaric types. Since there's no rogue hirelings in-game (other than the pricey DDO store ones), we figured one of us has to have a bit of rogue. In order to survive, we definitely need someone with strong healing. And in order to make it through a crowd of bad guys, we need muscle.
So for the umpteenth time we're considering starting over with new characters, and right now we've decided that having multiclassed characters could be part of what's hurting our party (someone's gotta disable traps)... and having a healbot-only drow cleric who can't defend themselves nor do much in a fight (while the other 2 are in battle) is also hurting us. So right now we're thinking that there's no way around it -- we need a pure rogue and we need a battle cleric. The 3rd person will have to be some type of fighter or barbarian, "the muscle" of the group, if you will, although we don't expect them to go at it alone, especially if the cleric can go on the offensive. (Right now getting our cleric to go defensive is hard enough.)
My question is -- Do you have any recommendations as to what race/class/roles/feats/skills a party of 3 should consider, so that we can actually take on quests and progress all the way to the last lvl of DDO? We were thinking of making a dwarf battle cleric as one of the characters, but not sure if that would be the best. Halflings with a heal dragonmark is quite enticing, but then leaves the cleric a bit on the weak side for defensive or offensive purposes, I think. WF have nice immunities but their WIS sucks so not sure about making a WF cleric... Any ideas on what 3 characters we should create?