Just got done with a shroud that completed successfully (per usual) with only 11 people, because the 12th person decided to be a ****** and drop party in part 3.
I did my usual ramble prelude to going in, one of the things being to not put waters in unfinished puzzles. I know that people say you can put them in as long as the last one is not put in before the're all solved, but I just play it safe and say don't do it. Never been an issue until now. Someone had to state that it was changed and that it no longer applies. My response? Well, it wasn't changed within the last few days, as a guildie of mine threw the last water in one step from last puzzle being solved and we lost the center chests (normally not a big deal, but ******, I've been needing a medium shard on that toon for the last 3 or 4 runs!!). I also followed that up with a simple, I have the star, we're doing it my way please. Said person decided they couldn't handle that, dropped group and then proceeded to send me tells stating that I would know what I was talking about if I read the release notes more often.
I went back and looked at the release notes (which I read every time they're released) just to make sure I hadn't missed something about this. Unless I'm completely blind, the 12-13-10 notes don't include anything about the shroud apart from something about DI and part 4 I believe it was. Of course, I could be completely blind, but I don't believe so. Since it's been failed within the last week, I'm highly doubting that anything got changed (or even will, it's a perfectly accepted part of the shroud, IMO).
I run shrouds on a regular basis, a lot of people trust my leadership and I get compliments regularly that it was the best shroud they've ever run in. I don't know everything about this game yet, never claimed to even come close--but I do know shroud and regulars run it with me because they know I'll build a solid group that can get it done.
So, to the point of this post. I put up the LFM, I retained the star, I didn't ask for help to lead the raid, therefor, I should have been the one making the decisions, assigning the roles, etc. If you don't like how the party leader runs things, don't run with them again. But FFS, don't sit there and argue with how they're choosing to do things, especially since it wasn't something that was gonna make or break the win factor or cost you to blow resources, etc. Holding off on one water only meant a guaranteed extra 2 chests. Pretty realistic expectation for the group to follow. Dropping group like you did just made you look like a fool to everyone else in the raid, most of which agreed with me, either in party or through tells afterwards.
TL;DR--Do what the leader asks and play nice or don't bother joining others groups!