ddo girlfriend....?

[drewrayder]

Or you could actually do what you tell people instead.


In other words, you don't have to open up your mouth. Move along there is nothing here you desire to see.


Still never found anything better? Because by posting like that you are showing that it is important enough to you in life.


Op, all I can say is that I hope it works out for you. Having things to do together makes a relationship a lot more fun, but don't be afraid to try out different games together to spice things up.

awesome job brother. spoke my thoughts very well. yeah we have an awesome time. we will be doing star trek online and eve as well lol. maybe warhammeronline.

[drewrayder]

Go to User CP on the top middle of the screen here, and then on the next screen you will see Edit Ignore List on the left hand side. Plug in the person's forum name and hit submit and voila never have to see posts by a person you find as intolerable, idiotic, or vapid again, whatever the case may be.

Personally I try not to get personal on a public forums, there is one post in this thread by me that is unusally so, but as a rule of thumb I keep my personal business to myself and would have been very mad at my hub if he had posted similarly as the OP, but in their case they seem to both be happy with it, and while it did strike me a tad exhibistionist, it was not to the point I would give either a mental health diagnosis. To each their own, whatever turns your wagon wheels as lng as it doesn't harm or interfere with the lives of others. Think some people recently are a bit over sensitive and might want to look at their own actions before they accuse others of things, as their past postings reveal something else enitrely indeed.

EXCELLENT TIP!!! unlike others im exremely happy to use this. saves me from becomming so horribly traumatized from the evil sadistic people...lol. really though thanks. i like my gaming zen in a positive way. negative people who revel in misery just want others there.

[kittikatgurl]

For anyone curious, I knew Solo was making this thread before he posted it, and it was never something I minded. We found this romance on DDO, and it is something that is exciting to us and we are proud of each other. For those that know us in game, we have a tendency to make a little bit of spectacle of ourselves on occasion. That is our prerogative, and something we enjoy.

Part the reason for the thread was as solo said initially, i never thought of the fact that I love playing DDO as a big deal and hes been trying to convince me that it is.

[kittikatgurl]

awesome job brother. spoke my thoughts very well. yeah we have an awesome time. we will be doing star trek online and eve as well lol. maybe warhammeronline.

O.o I didn't know this, but sounds great to me

[MarinMegara123]

Go Soloartiste!!!!

Hi Kiitikatgurl.

[Sir_Noob]

I had a DDO GF once, but in the end she just turned out to be a + 1 Curse Spewing Battle Axe.

[BansheeMalthus]

Just to reiterate, I've ran with both of you, by myself and with my wife. You've always been great to play with, and fun to chat to. We always thought that you were a couple, but never asked. We think it's great and wish you many years of happiness, even if you leave to another MMO. See you guys soon.

[timetorun177]

kittykatgirl might send you to her face book sight. who knows.

It takes about 20 seconds to find your characters facebook page, and from there, hers and yours. It isn't secret.

[katana_one]

Back when I was a teenager, me and my fellow D&D players used to think the idea of a female gamer was just the absolute coolest thing. We would marvel at the possibilities of having girlfriends who gamed (really, we just marveled at the possibilities of having girlfriends at all ).

20 some years later, I am in a game group which actually has more female gamers than males - the DM's wife plays, the wife of another player plays, my girlfriend plays, and one of the DM's female neighbors plays. Four gals, three guys.

I wish I could tell my teenage self that playing D&D with girls is not as great as we thought it was. With all the table-talk about shoes, kittens, shopping, food, the latest viral YouTube video, etc. going on it's amazing we actually get any D&D into the session.

So, it's perfectly fine that my girlfriend doesn't want to play DDO - she's too busy playing Settlers of Catan Online anyway.

[Elucidus]

My wife Plays DDO with me, though not nearly as much as I. In fact, I often find myself soloing when she isn't in the mood to play.

[drewrayder]

It takes about 20 seconds to find your characters facebook page, and from there, hers and yours. It isn't secret.

SHHhhhhhh....its a deep dark secret....(you tell everyone....thats a nono....most people on here dont know what a computer is....shhhh...)

[Missing_Minds]

Part the reason for the thread was as solo said initially, i never thought of the fact that I love playing DDO as a big deal and hes been trying to convince me that it is.

Anything is a big issue, anything is a small issue. It all depends on how much weight/value you give to it personally.

example: some people give great weight on insults/being insulted. Such that it really riles them up. (and seriously, that was not a jab at anyone anywhere, it is just an example that most people would get.)

If DDO has that much meaning for you, so be it. My hope is that it is positive in its meaning and not a negative.

[Bladecutter563]

Does she have a sister?

[samthedagger]

My wife often plays playstation or Wii while I am playing DDO. She plays live D&D with me though. It even turns her on sometimes. She likes to "roleplay." It's a happy relationship.

[Elucidus]

Yeah my wife started playing PnP with me first, and we used to split our TV a couple of years back and each play a different game system side by side, usually RPGs of all sorts.

[timetorun177]

SHHhhhhhh....its a deep dark secret....(you tell everyone....thats a nono....most people on here dont know what a computer is....shhhh...)

Its not a secret. Its on the internet. Search Soloartiste on facebook and find it...

[silverraven]

I have my first gamer girlfriend and its freakin awesome. I cant say as I'd want one plays the same games as me though. It adds a bit of variety that I play DDO and she plays the Wii. Now, if you could tell me how to get her to stop comparing DDO to WoW then I'm all ears

[sephiroth1084]

back When I Was A Teenager, Me And My Fellow D&d Players Used To Think The Idea Of A Female Gamer Was Just The Absolute Coolest Thing. We Would Marvel At The Possibilities Of Having Girlfriends Who Gamed (really, We Just Marveled At The Possibilities Of Having Girlfriends At All ).

20 Some Years Later, I Am In A Game Group Which Actually Has More Female Gamers Than Males - The Dm's Wife Plays, The Wife Of Another Player Plays, My Girlfriend Plays, And One Of The Dm's Female Neighbors Plays. Four Gals, Three Guys.

I Wish I Could Tell My Teenage Self That Playing D&d With Girls Is Not As Great As We Thought It Was. With All The Table-talk About Shoes, Kittens, Shopping, Food, The Latest Viral Youtube Video, Etc. Going On It's Amazing We Actually Get Any D&d Into The Session.

So, It's Perfectly Fine That My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Play Ddo - She's Too Busy Playing Settlers Of Catan Online Anyway.

Hahaha!

[EDIT] Out of curiosity, why the heck did quoting this capitalize every word?

[drewrayder]

Its not a secret. Its on the internet. Search Soloartiste on facebook and find it...

for the ones that are still in awe of this fantastic skill he has....the link is also in my bio...but lets just make it easy for those that cant compare to timetorun's awesome skills of facebook...

http://www.facebook.com/home.php#!/p...00001225352951

[kittikatgurl]

Its not a secret. Its on the internet. Search Soloartiste on facebook and find it...

I think you failed your detect sarcasm check