First let me say "Happy Holidays" to my brothers and sisters of DDO.
Here's a brief background, followed by my problem / question.
I'm a veteran of MMO gaming, yet only recently stumbled upon DDO. Prior to the online options, I've done plenty of pen and paper games. So I am comfortable with the game play, and I understand the various roles within the group.
Having said that. Here's the problem I'm having, and could really use some input / advice.
I have a several chars on Cannith, ranging from 6th lvl to 12. Early levels, groups are plentiful and easy to get into. Then towards mid, I encounter such things as "Must be flagged", "Must have (such and such)", and scarcely see many grps in the mid level range as is. Also while I understand the term "Farming", DDO still has me lost on what to farm, why, and various uses of the Alter of change. (If I'm saying that correctly).
I'm also well aware of most of the community's reaction to new players. I've seen groups kick or berate a player, simply because they didn't know something .. or did something wrong. "NO! Why did you step on that platform!?!" as an example. I've been fortunate that my experiences in other games have taught me to watch and follow, and never assume.
So at mid level I kind of hit a wall. I'm VIP so all content is available to me. I do explore, and try and look things up. I do use DDOwiki as well, but I find I'm still lost with all this "being flagged", which quest to do, and such. I notice the quests early on often had Solo/Party, and indeed could be soloed. Now I'm in the range where almost every one says Party or extreme challenge Party.
Hope I'm presenting this right... but in general where most players seem to know what quests they want or need ... I'm simply floating around either soloing lower content, exploring outside areas, and jumping into whatever groups I can my level. I'm just not used to being this naive about a game's content. Others I've played were either pretty straight forward about it, easier to look up info, and seemed to have a larger amount of players that enjoyed helping newer players.
Any insight would be greatly appreciated. I love the game, I'm just lost now with mid-level content. (I imagine beyond that will only present the same issue or perhaps worse).