I've read through surprisingly much of this.
The main argument seems to be
As with everything else in DDO you should plan your character beforehand to get a nice result and some chat about making something already easy mode even easier.
And the counterargument is more along the lines of 'well it would be nice'.
I'm firmly on the Plan Ahead side. While cool to get an item back, I do feel it is rather like stats distribution. Should TR retain their stats through all lives, perhaps? With whatever modifications they ate along the way.