I bet that title has you begging the question "how are you a terrible player?". I'm not, really, but I can't decide on a solid build because I want to be good at everything (perfectionist, yay), still good at end-game for most things, and can usually be useful without being squishy/a handful.
So, I just bought the monk class (hoping it was money well-spent) and am wondering, what is a good build for monk/rogue/wizard, assuming I want 9 levels of monk, enough wizard levels to get most of the useful damage/buff spells, and the remaining levels into rogue? Is this even possible or am I dreaming of a faraway land called "the looney bin"? Please don't insult or flame me, I'm not a good DDO player simply because I don't stick with any single build (except for a level 14 wizard that I have no quests for, and isn't up to par with most wizards his level). I'm just trying to find a build I would love to solo with right on up to 20, and still contribute to parties in a way.
After telling me what levels should go where (I'm thinking 9 levels of wizard and 2 of rogue), what should my stats be? I have drow unlocked but for roleplaying purposes I think I'd rather be human, and I only have the 28 point build unlocked. So, here's my dilemma:
9/9/2 monk/wiz/rogue, or some other rogue/wiz level ratio?
What stats for a 28 point build?
Is being a human simply for roleplaying (can't afford more races presently) really going to make this build suck? If so what race SHOULD I be? How good for this build would warforged be if I had that race?
Sorry if I come off as a noob who wants the best of all 2599184 worlds, I'm just trying to think of stuff and haven't settled in a build, and quite frankly I need outside opinions now.
Thanks!