My problem is with people wanting the newer players to be prepared to know where to look and what to look for. If you have somebody like yourself to help them out and guide them their route will be a lot easier. If you can tell somebody what to look for they can find it. If I was new would I know what the forums are? Would I know what weapon I would need for each quest? Would I be geared enough with simple +6 items? No, I woudn't be. maybe they are here for the fun of the game and don't really care if they don't have everything they need? For us vets it might be the minimum but I bet you for a new guy it isn't.
When we were leveling we had the time to learn from our own mistakes and try it over and over again. You know how many wipes I have had? LOL Anyone remember then the vamp quest in house p was crazy hard and people would have a really hard time to finishing it?
New players now don't really get to experience this..... casual setting anyone? DDO store easy button? TR's zerging the way and leveling them faster then they can get to the end chest? We need to back off a bit and let them enjoy the game more, then worrying about what they need to have! When they are ready to realize that they need more they will start searching on their own.
The other day I was trading somebody for a DOD. He got lucky and pulled 1....... I asked him what he wanted and he wanted large scales...... he didn't know what the shroud was , how to flag, what to make..... he just knew that he NEEDS gs and he wanted to make 1. I threw him also enough smalls and mediums so he can get his weapon updated as fast as he gets his shards. It was sad for me to watch a new player worrying about gs when he didn't even knew where the area or quests are
Maybe we pressure them 2 much to try to have better gear?
and people forget to really enjoy the game.....
Seriously I don't bother asking people to link weapons...... for normal shroud if we can't carry 3-4 newer guys then we better wipe
See for higher difficulties I would raise the bar and maybe ask them to link it.