I don't have non-TRd melees. This means I don't have any melees that cannot give themselves a buff they REALLY want Everything else is not required, I really don't break a sweat about it.
My biggest problem was with the tone of the replies. In most high-end content casters are buffers. Now imagine an elite VOD where a caster says sorry I won't buff when the party stands before Horoth. Time, resources wasted, and I can't post an lfm that I want an arcane with haste/blur/gh/RE/PE/rec/OID, etc, etc. I'm sorry but these are taken as granted. And also, I really want to know beforehand who are those casters which think they do us a favor by buffing, hence the blacklist.
And what I find most ridicolous that I actually have to tell why is it wrong that a caster doesn't buff. Because most of the high-end content cannot be run alone, not by melee, not by caster, not by divine. They are all needed, so behave accordingly. Melees shouldn't ask for unneeded buffs, and anyone who has the buffs should hand them out.
Just to be fair, I would be upset on a melee if he whines that stupid caster didn't give him GH and didn't kept him displaced during p1 of shroud