Dear Generic New Player 1104, (Whose name I had not seen before today)
If I decline your party invite the first time, and the second time, and the third time, and the fourth and the fifth and the sixth and the seventh and let your eighth expire and go afk for a soda after your ninth, and then upon your tenth send you a tell asking you what you need, and squelch you after your eleventh, if after all of this you still wish to party with me... You must be desperate.
Found a video to illustrate my feelings. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KbfePxzUBjY