I have just recently come back from a long break from ddo. Before I quit I had almost no problems with lag. Now I can barely run normal quests let alone raid.

What happens is my character freezes up, can't move, can't cast, and misses all the action and can almost never catch up. It only happens when other people are in the same area. I play on the khyber server. I have everything but DDO off, Fullscreen low settings on everything and it doesn't help. How can I fix this?