hello, i havent played ddo in a while but i decided to get back into it as a monk. right now i just started a 28 pt build which is:

STR: 16
DEX:16
Con 14
int: 8
Wis: 10
cha: 8

now what i basically want is a good DPS monk who also has good survivability. i couldnt decide which was better out of str and dex so i made them both the same. i dont think monks need int or cha so i didnt touch them and i put almost the rest into con to give him decent hp but intead of going 15 con i decided to put a few into wis cuz i know wis is good for monks but i dont know how good so i just got it out of that single digit range. now i know its not the best cuz its only a 28pt but as far as 28pt builds go is this a decent build? and if not what would be a good build that would dish out the best dps without being a squishy little fairy that dies real quick. thank you i appreciate all opinions i just wanna learn to be the best monk i possibly can.

P.S. i dont wanna worry too much about feats and skills right now. for now i just wanna know what the best stats are to start out. thank you.