A little information first. I enjoy playing support characters, always have. I don't know why; maybe it's because it's the feeling that "my support makes everyone else do better" that makes it worth more to me than one-trick-pony builds that only focus on one or maybe two things, like only DPS or only healing.
Anyhow, I think I'm ready to start building "the character to take to level 20". My very first character was jacked up because I brought over PnP mentalities to DDO, and that hardly ever works out (I didn't do any research, didn't register on forums, and found out the hard way CON is not a dump stat). The second character was better, but I can already tell it won't be able to make it to 20 (he's still just at 8.5).
So I have always enjoyed playing bards, and have looked into following an actual build this time around. I found the Spellsinger, and the Lyrical Poet builds, both of which look very interesting to play.
I just can't decide what the list of pros and cons are for each (I suspect they'll play similarly with differences being very subtle), so I figured I'd ask the more experienced experts around here. Bear in mind that while I know I won't be doing much actual fighting with either build and that's okay, one of the goals I want to achieve is not missing much with crowd control spells. I understand both builds seem to be geared toward that, but I couldn't figure out which one excels at what. Also, I plan to go Human (unless there's a good enough argument to do some other race). My other goal is that I know I'm a packrat, so the 10 STR in both instances might quickly weigh me down - if I went with the 12 STR variant mentioned in the Spellsinger notes, what other stat would I need to decrease?
Would someone be nice enough to break it down for me? Thanks a bunch, folks.