First of all, thank you to all the people posting here. These forums have been a wealth of information for the new DDO-er. Plus, these are definitely the friendliest MMO forums I have been on, which has motivated me to unstealth from my fortress (well, condo...) of solitude.
I am looking for builds which would duo well together, mostly focusing on end-game content. I have spent weeks reading the forums and am getting close, but I haven't yet found the perfect match. I am going to be duo-ing with my wife, who is a first time MMO-er, and so we plan to take our time and won't be grouping outside of the duo (no one will have the patience to endure our slow pace). However, I would eventually like to be able to grind for some of the top (or near-top) gear together as a duo, if that is possible.
One limiting factor is that my wife is subject to motion sickness and will be new to the whole WASD/targeting/clicking challenge. Therefore she would probably prefer to limit her movement while in combat and not have to chase down mobs and rotate the camera more than necessary. I also want her first online gaming experience to be fun, so it would be ideal for her character to be more than a pure healer/buffer.
The build that I am leaning towards for her at the moment is an Elf AA Bard/Rng/Rog 16/2/2 -- this would allow her to contribute some ranged DPS plus buffing/healing plus acceptable Rogue skills. This would also allow my character to focus on tanking and DPS. We have access to all races and characters and 32 pt builds (broke down and used the store to save time). I would prefer to not use WF characters for a variety of reasons.
So, if Elf AA Bard/Rng/Rog 16/2/2 is viable for her, what would be a good build for my character? Pure Paladin or Fighter would seem to work, but I'm not sure if going more DPS or Tanky would be better for the toughest end game content. I'm not even sure that these are especially good classes to duo together, so I am eager to hear about other ideas.
If anyone has any specific builds to point to, please do. If not, I can work them up myself once I decide on the level breakdown and main focus of each build.
Of course, I am assuming that she will enjoy the game, or my character will end up going solo...