To the kid last night who was yelling into his mic "OMG" over and over and also trying out your newly-learned cusswords on the PUG for "Proof is in the Poison" - you can do one of a few things after being tricked into recalling and then kicked from the group: You can either assume it was an isolated incident, that we all genuinely want to listen to you backtalk your mom and scream into your mic as you, from the sound of it, placed it into your mouth so we could hear you breathing as well as making snide comments, and keep it up, always somehow getting tricked into giving up party leader status and then promptly kicked after getting told to recall (seriously, when someone says "stay away from the acid" and you die 5 times by walking through it, it only speaks to how easy this game has gotten that you made it to level 5), you can learn something from it and try to join a few PUGs and keep your mouth shut (as I think at least one of the other members I had partied with before and learned something from, as I try to do in EVERY PUG), or you can infest the trade channel with random insults until you are summarily squelched/reported.
The sad part about stuff like this is this is why I do not bother joining PUGs for the most part, outside of guild groups and that ONE Tempest PUG and the Pit, most of my experience with any missions lower than those seem to be completely infested with these kinds of players. I know this has been beaten to death over and over again here... but the main reason I came to DDO is to get away from games where that is the norm (I hear WOW is like that, I came from 2Moons with the "GINORMOUSINFLATABLEGOBLINKILLINGSWORDS2200K! GINORMOUSINFLATABLEGOBLINKILLINGSWORDS2200K! GINORMOUSINFLATABLEGOBLINKILLINGSWORDS2200K!" infesting gen chat almost all the time)... and it is scaring vets away who are really what we n00bs need around to teach us to appreciate the D&D aspects... before they are gone.
Anyway, that's my rant. I know we are all a little dysfunctional, and maybe that kid didn't need to get kicked like that, but seriously, this is common courtesy, even if this is your first MMORPG... how do you all generally handle stuff like this? I was of the "take them under your wing and teach them the ways of the force" school until recently when my give-a-crapometer broke...