Originally Posted by
tinyelvis
People who insist that a certain race or class are squishy are not very experienced or talented players. Squishy is a play style. Don't listen to those posers. Decide what you want and learn how to build and play the toon that fits your mold.
Now, having said that, most new players need lot's of hitpoints with their new arcane casters. So, be sure you have what it takes to play or learn to play a toon with other than super high hit points.
Choose a Drow if you want the absolute highest possible spell DC. No other race can do this and it is good goal. If you go that route,
Intelligence: it is almost always best to max your intelligence as a wizard.
Constitution: Setting your con higher than 12 will be really inefficient with your build points. The extra 20 hitpoints at cap level won't really matter. 14 is max for a Drow at start, so consider this move carefully.
Strength: You don't need strength higher than 8. You can buff strength many ways and spells that sap strength wear off quickly. Only place points here if you have a specific reason.
Dexterity: You can neglect this stat and still have high reflex saves with a feat. However, if want to use certain good skills well that are Dex related then you will need points here. For example, move silent, balance, and (traps and locks if you go rogue). Plus some few saves are actual dex saves.
Wisdom: This stat for the most part can be neglected, however, a good will save can sometimes mean the difference between life and death. You can kill bad guys or heal yourself while held.
Charisma: You can't have everything and if you don't plan on a specific use for charisma, then don't spend points here.