You join my group, and as the quest goes write...
"You or I could solo this, M8."
True. But it's insulting to the other four players. No need to say it.
I put the LFM up because I enjoy playing with others. If I wanted a solo game I would play solo.
I enjoy playing with a group that isn't perfectly balanced or skilled. I get to use my brain coming up with a way to complete despite of the obstacles. I show my skill by helping others.
In an MMO, the main puzzle is working with others, not the quest itself. The quests are easy. People are difficult.
You are the most difficult, M8. Your ugly mouth and attitude do not impress, only annoy...
Another player speaks of his search for a rare item. Rather than console him for his bad pulls or counsel patience,
You show you have the item already.
Just to be rude?
Wake up. Newer players should be encouraged. It's in our self interest to get more players having fun and supporting the game. It's also the right thing to do.
If you want to treat newer players like that,
Look for an LFM that says
'Know the quest'
'My.DDO in use'
'selective'
I'm good enough to compensate for a few newer players. If you aren't
Don't join my LFM.