Obviously when you get to higher levels wind stance wins out on dps by way too much to even consider water stance.
That said, I've been playing with my 6-year-old and looking for a build he could enjoy by himself when I'm not home. He's fallen in love with a halfling dex-based dark monk (wanted him to have great ac for the early game).
Obviously paralyzers aren't readily available at level 5 but Jidz-Tet'ka is. For anything that can be paralyzed am I wrong in thinking this would be an outstanding stance for a few levels while you're working your way up to the level where you could just use paralyzing handwraps?