So I made a 18/2 Paladin Fighter, but I wasn't really tanking a whole lot my first life, so when I TR'd, I went with dps feats. A bit later, and now it's getting hard to find a tank for epic DQ, so I was trying to find out what it would take to modify my guy to get a decent success rate on my intims.
As of now:
23 ranks +
15 (item) +
10 (30 charisma) +
6 (GS) +
1 (Fighter enhancement) +
2 (Head of GF) +
4 (Greater Heroism)
= 61 self buffed
Bard song is 2 more, for 63 in a raid, plenty for norm/hard pug raids, and the guild has tank builds near 70 for the elite guild runs.
Epic DQ takes 79+1 for a no fail, from what I hear, but I think I remember getting to around 77 should be enough to make it doable, with mass heal being fixed.
With a lesser TR, I could drop some feats (like TWF) and get the 3 dragonmarks (I'm human), bullheaded, and SF: Intim for another 6 + 2 + 3, for a total of 74 intim. I'd still fail on a 5 however, and would probably gimp my guy enough to make it not fun to play. Is there anything I'm missing that can get me a bit more intim, to make it worth it?
Notes: I do not want to TR as a fighter, as that would take 3 weeks + lesser hearts + the actual relevelling after the TR. I don't really want to drop below 18 paladin either, even to pick up more fighter intim enhancements.
As far as Cha, I only have a +2 tome right now but all +3 exceptional. A +4 Charisma tome would give another 1 intim, but I've been farming ToD, so I think there's not much else I can do until I get lucky on the drop.