I am relatively new to DDO and have been playing with all the classes and races to get a solid feel for the game and to understand how a group should work. And for the most part this is easily a great effin' MMO. My only thing is, Tanking in this game is far different than most of the MMO's I am used to. And I am used to just being a meat shield when I Main Tank, but in this, or at least at the first half of levels, I have not really seen too many Sword and Board tanks. Namely TWF and THW being the tank and they do a pretty decent job at it 75% of the time.
My question is, what is preferred? A real Tank that deals little damage, but can hold aggro and manage some melee CC, or a DPS Tank who can intimitank and smash apart groups?