This my 3rd attempt at DDO. (2006, 2008 and 2009), and i m having rough time.
Each time i try ddo (which i love) i'm hitting a wall, a certain point from which every thing seem to get A LOT harder:
1st time i quit around lvl4 (trying to play solo rogue)
2nd time it was around lvl 10 ( My GF joined in, and hirelings were there)
3rd time is now my 3rd time (was EU player, now on US server)
I'm lvl 14 (never been so high) and i'm trying to do Desert/Necropolis 3/restless island
So i m stuck with lvl 10-12 mission (being 14)
And i mean lvl 9-10 were hellish (Jungle of Khyber for instance, or the last mission protect Coyle)
Beholders and Mummies are a Big problem (i want to finish necro 3)
My GF and i manage to do the missions but at a heavy cost. So heavy that we don't have fun anymore
Ex: when my GF dies three times in a mission, usually she quits DDO for a week, or two...
(I've included the parameters that describe our game play so you can have the best idea how we play)
SO Could you assert/deny the following
1° YES THERE IS A WALL. and getting past the original content needs preparation/grind/training, don't loose hope!
2° YES THERE IS A WALL. and the way you play the game won't get you past that wall (that option makes me very sad since i don't intend to play otherwise)
3° NO THERE'S NO WALL. only the game getting a little harder and what you are dong wrong is ________ (insert advice)
4° NO THERES NO WALL. you just suck at this game
Thank you for your input
Parameters
* My GF plays a Kensai 14 Greataxe, i play a rogue 12/ranger2 and we a have priest hireling (expensive)
* We play only the two of us
* We like the Nice and Easy style
* We try to be informed. (Reading the forum, checking the build advices)
* We try to do all the missions avalaible in order (not setting a foot in Gianhold before finishing desert)
* We do not Grind content (doing the mission ONCE on normal, getting back on Hard/Elite once for Favor a few lvl later)
* We do not Cheat ( NOT using maps, dungeons guide, video library of quest)
* We are not over stuffed. (equpping ourselves on our own)
* We do not play on casual mode (last glimpse of honor) but we are casual players
* we absolutely, totally HATE zerging