This game has been around for over 4 years now and I'm guessing that the population that has been around since beta has greatly diminished. Very few folk remember when level 10 was the cap and ransacking the chests in Thernal was a good way of making loot (Co6 too).
What is really sad is that the few that are left from beta have rounded the wagons and islolated themselves from the wave of new players that are coming to the game. They have formed tight knit social circles that have little room for new talent or even a chance to see the new talent out there.
If this were the workplace, the senior members of the staff would take the kid fresh from college under his/her wing and mentor them, passing on their institutional knowledge and also job related experiences, knowing that college can only teach so much and that there is nothing better than "On the Job Training".
Why should DDO be much different? I often read about 6 manning this or that raid. Why not open it up for a couple of folks that normally would never get a chance at some raids? Another cleric or bard can't mess a raid up that much, and if you are uber, you should be able to overcome their inexperience.
Who knows, maybe the person you invite is the next Spisey, Tink or Hefty? Or maybe they are that guy that will always be willing to run his cleric and be healbot for ya.
I know this may sound far fetched but maybe Agronnesen can get a reputation as a place where new players are felt welcomed and we can improve the quality of players, instead of just complaining about them.
BTW, I happen to be someone who has been around a while, tends to pug almost entirely, and belongs to no chat channels whatsoever so I have some ground to speak from.