So I finally reached 18th and got Wail of the Banshee. I ran around Vale of Twilight like a little girl with a new doll showing it off to all the neighborhood kids... who promptly fell over dead in this case. I was joyous, I was insanely happy, I was bouncing around in glee.
Then I join some guildmates in SoS.
This was my 2nd run with this character in SoS, the first one, last night, taught me the values of getting fireshield asap so I swapped out enervation for it and sighed in relief when I tested it around town and saw the damage I took from fire spells was mitigated so much that I stood a chance when DBF spells started getting thrown at my clutzy sorc.
This 2nd run however I suddenly felt useless again, only this time it was in the stone giant area. My DC 32 Flesh to Stone did nothing on the giants to slow them down, my DC 33 webs didn't do much either. I might catch one out of 18 giants running around the end room but that was about it. Against the shamans I had to dump about 1/4th of my blue bar just to help get him down and so by the time we got to the end fight of that level I had very little SP left to work with and didn't know what to do other than throw as many firewalls down as I could and try to lead the trash through them. However they had to many HP to make that viable.
So what exactly is my role? My nukes don't seem to do enough damage in group settings to make a difference unless the target is specificly weak against my spells and doesn't have a few hundred points of protection up. My normal means of crowd control are generally ineffective, Flesh to Stone is fort save which giants have plenty of. They are immune to mind compulsion spells so dancing sphere is out. And they are so huge I can usually only get one giant per web. Death spells are pointless since they are immune to them even tho I have double spell pen feats, 2 ranks of the spell pen enhancements, and a spell pen VII item.
In the end I bounce around nuking like made, seeing nothing drop to them as I have in previous content, and go squish rather fast despite 290 HP (Toughness, double tough enhancements, 22 con, minos helm, GFL item). I hate feeling like I have nothing to contribute and am sure it is just myself trying to adjust from a melee mindset (Main is a paladin) to a caster one and don't seem to be making the connection of what I am doing wrong.