As a fellow parent I suggest you take the correct steps and go to this link
http://www.justice.gov/criminal/cybe.../reporting.htm
I never did let my son play D2 on Battlenet because everytime I logged in it was like reading a script for a gay porn in general chat.
Oh Battlenet.
Viewing porn is abnormal behaviour? Then at least 90% of the male population is abnormal.
I'm all for monitoring what your teen is up to, but I am a little concerned with two things, firstly that the op thought it was significant to point out that GAYporn was involved (how is gay versus straight relevant?) and viewing porn is somehow uber-wrong?
I think the real offense is simply posting the link, but compared to the things I hear daily from members of my guild (which can't not be clicked on), it's no worse. I have the option of leaving my guild if I were to feel the chatter got out of hand, as guild leader this person had/has the option of booting offenders from the guild (which she did).
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Annikka (Sorc), Dannikka (F), Jannikka (Rgr)
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“If at first you don't succeed, keep on sucking till you do succeed.”
I would report the person to turbine, I also get them on as many blacklists as i can on your server.
Preacherman (Cannith, Thelanis)
Pheromone (canith, Thelanis)
From the OP I can only gather that the fact it was gay is what concerned you? Or would you have said "it was STRAIGHT PORN"?
If she is a teen, she's seen more already, I promise you. She probably told you for shock value
And it sounds like she took the right first step. The second step would have been to file a harrassment complaint so the person at least gets a warning about appropriate content.