Looking for the perfect guild

[Magusrex777]

My wife and I are looking for the perfect guild. I have been trying to push through all of the listings to search for the right guild and I am having difficulty. Maybe a guild leader is reading this or someone knows of the perfect guild. Perfect guild you ask? OK, let me describe it.

You log in and some people greet you, not everyone, but the guild needs to have at least a few friendly people. No pressure, meaning the moment we log in we don’t get a blind invite to join a group and if we say no we don’t get asked why not and pressured to go. I understand why some guilds are like that and if yours is and you like that, good for you. We just are not looking for that so best to get it out of the way.

We like to play together, so if there is not room for both of us we probably wont go. If you do raid and we go you can expect we will be extremely prepared first. We will have the gear and consumables necessary, we will have researched the place beforehand and have basic knowledge of what to expect before we have ever been to the raid. If we commit to attending in advance we will be on time and will honor our commitments. We will just never be “hard-core raiders" again I led raids for years in many games, my time for that is done.

If you do not raid, that is fine to, the right guild atmosphere is more important to us. We will be drama free, we just want to play and have fun. A guild without many rules is plus. Treat each other with respect, don’t act like a jerk are fine. You must be on at 8pst-12pst 4 times a week and join all guild runs, no deal. We have a 5 year old our play is often after 8 PST we sometimes need to go AFK to take care of our child. She comes before gaming always, a guild that accepts that or has others in similar situations is a huge plus.

I think we have good sense of humor, and are good players. We don’t mind going slow and smelling every flower or doing nice fast XP/favor runs we just like to mix it up not all of one style. We are definitely not in a rush to the cap. My main toon is http://my.ddo.com/character/sarlona/galdryz I hope to hear from the perfect guild I think we would be good additions to any guild.