my monk need advice please

[southpole420]

hello im kinda new to the mnk(p2p) and to ddo

im tryin to figure out how to build a mnk and to make him one that can take the damage and deal it aswell im lvl 6 right now and think im failed here are my stats

name:upinsmoke(halfling)
str:16
dex:18
con:13
int:14
wis:11
cha:8

im a ninja spy and have chosin the path of darkness and i want to know what kind of stance and what i should use my ap in and other things to help my mnk be really good please post and tell me what u think and what i need to improve and how also i did not customize this mnk i followed a path and this is what i got, ill check in on this alot.

thank you