If I were you, I'd check out this build:
http://forums.ddo.com/showthread.php?t=210181
My currently level 12 monk is based on this build pretty closely. He was a ranger in a past life, and I took the barkskin feat cause I wanna.
As of right now, being wisdom based is a lot of fun, and really helps with the DCs of my special attacks, but I
may end up doing a lesser and giving him more STR. He is currently wearing a +6 item and is at 20 str.
Here is his myDDO page. Yes. He sucks. I know. I'm a noob still wearing crappy ****. Next level I start getting my raid gear, and I am excited! PLEASE DON'T JUDGE ME AND EXCLUDE ME FROM YOUR RAIDS!!

(We all know how you are, Quik

)
But I'd suggest checking that thread out if not for the build at least for some monk tips. A lot of good info in there.