First, some explanation on the contradiction in the title:
I'm a happy married man who is lucky enough to have a wife that actually counts DDO play time as "us" time. If you have not been in a long term relationship/marriage, you cannot understand. For the fellow DDO players who are, you know that such a partner is a rare gem! ;-)
Now, the little problem is that she is not very good/savvy with fast paced games, i.e. multitasking between weapon switching, engaging buffs and abilities while swinging in the overall direction of the enemy and quaffing health potions can get her rattled and frustrated, and we do not want that during our "us" time, do we?. So I advised her to play with a beginner friendly class: Warrior (smash!)
Although, we are having an overall good time (finished Elite up to lvl 3 quests, and Hard most up to level 5) we are reaching the limits of what we can do with our current builds. Her: lvl 7 human wirlwind fighter path, Me: lvl 7 elf mechanic path. I try to pick-up as much baddies as I can with backstab and ranged, but once I'm revealed, or we have to engage enemies that are backstab immune, we are pretty much dead. Hence, the title: I need help improving my current rogue, or restarting a completely new toon, that would do a better job at melee and increase the survival rate of my companion fighter. The character should be mostly self reliant, as it can get little more than some front-line smashing support from the fighter (hence the solo-ish build requirement).
I have looked seriously in the cleric variations presented in
http://forums.ddo.com/showthread.php?t=223253, and at the Melee-Focused build specifically (18 cleric/ 2 fighter), with a possible level or 2 in Rogue.
Now, before "Why would you do that, noob!" comments start to fly, please allow me to present my case for the build preference:
1/ We are not particularly interested in very high/end game play (time commitment), so I'd rather have a build that shines until lvl 15 and craps out, rather than a build that is average all along but becomes god-like in end-game.
2/ The build should be self-reliant, but still with good "baby-sitting" potential for my companion player.
3/ The build should be based on standard characters (no monks, warforged or FS), with 28 point build and regular (non-DDO store) items.
Again, the focus is not power play/ loot grind, but enjoyable play with a "freshman" player (if I may call myself "junior").
A detailed level progression with skills acquisition, like the ones with the character builder, would be very much appreciated! Thank you in advance for helping me make DDO an integral part for a couple's "us" time!
Best regards