Recently, in prison of the planes, I had a short arguement. A pretty stupid one, too.
Basically, after the quest started and I had buffed people up with Blur and Greater Heroism (I play a wizard, obviously), someone demanded Jump to be cast on him. I asked why, because I could not see the need for it in PoP - this was obviously wrong, as I was told that I should stop asking and cast the spell. The whole way he talked to me did not sit well with me, so I got sarcastic, was told I had an attitude problem and was arrogant and this was probably my first character, also he had a higher kill count than me and should know better and basically the situation escalated until some part of our brains remembered that we were a) not 3 years old and b) just playing a game and made us stop our stupid quarrel. And yes, I did cast jump on him in the end and even gave him a jump clickie I found
Now the main problem with me was a) I did not immediatly cast jump after being asked for it and b) I did not keep haste up all the time (to be honest, I rarely used it on this quest).
I can understand that people want to be hasted all the time (it's a great spell, after all), but on the other hand I sometimes like to have fun with my spell points and I honestly don't think that PoP on normal is a great deal of trouble for level 14 characters (and, indeed, we finished the quest with very few problems).
The jump thing, on the other hand, hints to a different idea: The idea that there are things casters just do when asked for. Similar things happened to a cleric, who was told to cast Mass Heal to top the group off and refused. Both times the other player felt entitled to some part of the caster's ressources. In a limited sense I agree with it: I expect a cleric to heal me. Not necessarily keep me at 100%, but keep me alive in case I make a mistake and attract too much aggro, or maybe I just lag into a mob. On the other hand, I feel obligated to Blur everyone, just because it is so very useful, and probably also GH the group, especially if there's no bard.
BUT: What about the underlying problem? Do you think everyone in the party is entitled to the ressources of everyone else? Or should you just bring your own **** heals/jump pots/rage clickies/whatever and if you get healed by cleric/buffed by the wizard/shouted at by the barbarian it's a bonus? What if someone is blind and someone else has a potion while the blinded player has not? Where does self suffiency end?
I honestly don't know for sure what I would say.