I do ask this question to FvS, and yes I also ask it to clerics. I want to know what role you are playing so I can fill the rest of the group out with what I need.
I am a lover of irony too but....the OP here is ranting about people communicating. ROFL.
Its the people who FAIL to communicate that find out the hard way through party wipes exactly what their FvS or cleric is willing to do or not.