The two main pure monk build are:
1) STR and CON based for more dps, hit points, and Fire and Earth stances.
2) DEX and WIS based for AC, TWF, Wind and Water stances.
It usually boils down to what you want to be able to do with your build. Personally, I went with the 'I don't wanna be hit cause it hurts' AC build.
I once went toe-to-toe with a STR-based build and got my ass handed to me. Meh, I generally don't go for PvP anyway and I don't build toons just to do so. I'll play what I want, when I want, and how I want. I like my monk just the way she is. As with any new toon I make, I'll send over 200 CSW potions so they have some in stock. By the time she was capped at 20, she had used a total of FIVE of those potions.

I swear on it. I never had to buy her any type of healing potion, what so ever.
