Hello All -
I'm a fairly new player to DDO (since Aug). I'm a casual player (I've only one toon) and play when I can but due to GF/work/kids aggro I dont play as much as I like...but I've been able to get my Dwarven Cleric up L12 (yesterday YEAH!) I dont have a ton of MMO experience (my only other game was SWG) but I do respect others in the game.
Since I've been playing this game I've encountered many different play styles...some of them very poor and others very good. I had some issues with my class & other playrs while questing (see my previous posts) but I got some very good advice on these forums...after using those bits of advice, I must say my DDO experience has really improved.
I know some PUG's are horrible...some players just do not "get" the whole MMO concept and neither does it occur to them that the game is about fun and learning, not just zerging thru to an endquest and xp. When I'm in a PUG, I try to take some leadership if no one else is acting in a coordinated manner. Some players split up for no reason and get mad when they die cause there is no "flawless" Xp or whatever. Well...guess what? It's "your" own fault. I just dont think that players get it...but that may be a reflection of their RL as well.
Please don't hate on all PUG'rs...some of us just are not in a guild (for whatever reason) or just new to the game. I bet alot of the PUG'rs would really benefit from some sort of help IG.
EVERY PLAYER was a noob once, and they learned from a vet who was patient with them and taught the the ropes (or the very least took them on the quests). Do some players deserve a boot to the butt? Of course. But at the same time...be cool, cause those same PUG'rs maybe invaluble to you in some way later on.
And ya know what? I've been in plenty of groups where vets are leveling lowbies and they totally flip out when players don't zerg with them everywhere. Just recently I was trying to finish the Threnal quest and I invited someone who was "experienced" but the only one in group who was. He/She was VERY aggravated that we didn't zerg *** him and follow him around...he had a Sorc and hasted himself only and never bothered to help the rest of us. When I asked him/her to actually HELP and lead, he sent me a /tell and it said "I HATE PUGS!" and quit after part 2 of the west side. He /ragelog because I asked him to actually be TEAM player?!?! WoW!
Anyway...I'm not trying to flame or anything, just saying...
- Not all PUG'rs are cut from the same cloth
- Not all Vets are cut from the same cloth
So can't we all just get along?