I did use the LFM, though I might have screwed up on the 'o' key thing. I was chatting into the window while looking for a group at the time.
Neat thing is though... Following the spectacular advice and assistance I've received, I was able to actually play with a group last night. Did a quest I knew nothing about, but I was just as helpful as I'd anticipated. Casting Scare, self buffing and going after mobs ginsu style was a lot of fun. Granted, the fighter with the two handed sword was owning every monster on the board. We solved that problem by splitting up however. I stuck with protecting the mage in the group, he stuck with hanging out with the priest. I must say it was a whole lot of fun.
To explain, a benefactor who chose to remain nameless appeared out of nowhere last night and shared a large amount of coin. I was able to purchase some Mithral Armor, and Two Rapiers with the Pure Good enchantment on them. Those were some serious upgrades . And yes, this character is much more efficient with dual welded rapiers. It seems that having intimidating looking gear garners better responses in group play, lol.
I have not fixed my feats yet, but will this am.
I am really leaning toward the Wizard12/Rogue2/Fighter6 build. Though what was pointed out to me by Xyfiel and Aranticus is very very helpful regarding what I envisioned. To be honest, I have to compare the two and see what I can stand to not have later on in levels. But having a lot of fun again playing thanks to solid advice.
I want to say thank you to everyone for taking the time and energy to share with me your views. It's helped me out immensely.