Originally Posted by
Lost_Leader
My first character was a cleric, but then again, I am a casual noob.
So my opinion on who's responsibility it is to be sure everyone is prepped and ready, has the proper consumables and weapons, or at the very least, knows that no one knows what is coming and therefore everyone is ready for everything?
... The party leader.
You took the responsibility/initiative to put the group together, now take it a step further and:
1. Be sure everyone knows what style you plan on playing (zerg, rose smelling, fast pace, moderate pace, harpering).
2. Be sure everyone is equipped. Simply mention ghost touch, death ward (tangleroot goggles), lesser restore potions... and then asking the cleric if he/she will need assistance on supplies. Maybe loan a weapon to a newbie fighter.
3. Get an idea of your parties capabilities, and be ready to change gears if necessary. If your cleric overburns power, or doesn't take advice on what buffs to use, adjust your strategy. Slow down. Reroll. Look to see who the mana drain is. Do what you need to do, but lead your party. If a group fails, you can point blame at the cleric, or at the sponguey barb, or the no haste sorcerer.. or you can accept that as a party leader that you didn't adjust well to the circumstances.
4. Take into consideration everyone's abilities. Everyone can use potions, bards and rangers and pallys can assist heal, if you have wf then arcanes help there, find out the sorcs spells, offer suggestions to the cleric and wiz on what to mem. If the ranger has an 8 wisdom and no wands, find out before ya start.
When I lead a party, if we fail, it is my fault. If a cleric ran out of resources or if someone needed a lesser restore and didn't get one, it is my fault. If someone wasn't properly prepared, or I didn't recognize someone as being worthless and then not adjusting... you guessed it, my own **** fault. Or the tequila's. Or some woman's.