Im new to DDO but I have been playing DnD for 28 years, long live Gary Gygax.
It seems to me that there is two ways to play DDO, you can play the way WOW gamers play, race to end game and have the leet dps. Or you can play the way we used to in the old days, get some mates, put together a group that you want to play and have some fun. We use Skype so we can talk, in game voice is not so good. And we put together a group that we want to have fun with, I am a theif, ranger and I am having a ball with it, hes not leet dps but hes good in the group dynamic.
I have been reading a lot of the forums and I think they may give people the wrong idea, we are not WOW we are DnD, we like to do quests, solve puzzles, disable traps, or am I missing something.
Cause I left WOW to come here because of the things I like.
If you like your toon, then play it who cares if its leet.