1) 36 vs 30 str favors the fighter. Any str based monk would start with 16 strength. A fighter would start with 18 and has +3 enhancements. So a 30 vs 35 or 31 vs 36 is more reasonable.
2)Bard buffs hardly benefit the monk more then the fighter... yes the monk has higher rate of attack, but the fighter has more crits which would then do more damage... (unless you are admitting that unarmed attack rate is equal to extra crits

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You are contradicting your earlier statement. You are the one admitting here that the higher attack rate dosen't make up for the better crits, I simply used every calc by your logic
3)Where are the ki strikes?
Any gimp fighter will have 36 str in mod 9, if a monk gets that 34 you're suggesting, he is just severly gimping himself in every other area. Sure, most of the current noobs who are rolling all dex monks are even more gimped, but going out all str is also a bad idea on a stat heavy class. You must be really desperate to try to justify and point sticks on such a small and fair difference.
I did my own monk attack rate test some time ago, dont remember the exact number but 92 sounds about right.
Of course I do
Read a bit below to get your response here
Then i will add monk PrEs.... oh right.. we dont know them yet...
Not in the forseeable future, given turbine's development cycle it will take at least another 6 months after ddou launch to get anything done about them. We are discussing what they can do now, or what we know. Not what they could do.
Monk stances are a mod 8 ability... on par with weapon spec/mastery that the fighter gets.
Kensai is a mod 9 ability, which should be comared to lvl 20 monk base damage, ring effects (whatever these might be), and eventually mod 10 monk PrEs...
Correct, so should I just get rid of that 3d6 die I used as well then? 
(hint: fighters will be amongs the top dps kings in mod 9 fyi)
Yes, w/o further ado:
Using fire stance... because its easier, evens out strength, and guarantees enough ki to use ki strikes.
Now you are contradicting yourself on the wind stance argument
-Using 1 ki strikes every other attack
-3d6 each of fire 3, air 3, or water 3 = 10.5 damage average / every other attack = 5.25 damage per hit.
-monk 34 str (16 base + 6item +4level +3 tome +3stance +2 rage)
That's just stupid and you know that too
-fighter 36 str (18 base + 6 item + 4level +3tome +3enhancments +2 rage)
-using +5 greaterbane handwraps (no need for GS)
Transmuting is your friend
Code:
monk ft main ft off
weapon 18 14 14
str 12 13 6
pa 5 5 5
bard 8 8 8
spec 6 6
base total 43 46 39
sa 8 8 8
acid 0 3.5 3.5
holy 0 7 7
slicing 0 2.5 2.5
ki strikes 5.25 0 0
greaterbane 10.5 0 0
procs total 15.75 13 13
bursts 0 11 11
bloodstone 12 12 12
crits total 12 23 23
blast 0 14 14
normal 66.75 67 60
crit 121.75 136 122
blast 121.75 150 136
66.75 * 17 hits = 1134.75
121.75 * 2 crits = 243.5
1134.75+243.5 / 20 attack = 68.9125 average damage
68.9125 * 92 attack rate * 2 hands / 60 seconds = 211
and 211 > 204 in my book
btw... on this monk comparison +5 greaterbane handwraps do the exact same dps as min 2 would.
Should we ever get min2, hopefully will also give a small bonus to base die just like every other gs weapon
i never jump to blind conclusions... i just use proper calculations.
bastard swords are just a good comparison vs monks because of the base damage.
sure khopesh would do slightly more dps... other martial weapons that dont require a feat would do less..
Bastard sword is a favorable comparision vs monks since it's a gimp melee, if you wanna argue that a monk is comparable to a gimp melee then I concur.
Fire stance is not "low dps" its just not as high as wind stance. (which i consider one of the flaws of monks since wind is both higher dps, higher dc ki, and higher ac)
Again you contradict yourself stating that 2 extra damage is worth more than 10% more attacks
i suggest you try it though.... my monk can fill his ki bar complelty using fire stance and a weighted 5% weapon just on 4 devils in part 4 shroud.... giving him a full ki bar to dump on harry in wind stance.
Been there, done that, still waste of time when you can usually fill fast enough as already discussed (5 hits 1 strike)
ok... so maybe str based monks with 15 starting dex may not be able to qualify for wind 4 for a while.... elf and halfing will, or any dex based monk. That extra 2.5% attack rate isnt that big a deal.
Agreed, 2,5% won't save them from being worst dps
I dont know how common they might be in mod 9... all i can say is they will be easier to get by the time your monk hits level 20 and needs one.