thanks so much for all the help thats what i love about DDO everyone is so willing to help so i ended up going with this build str 10 dex 10 con 16 int 10 wis 18 cha 6
feats
1 - mental toughness
3-empower healing extend maby 6
6- Extend maby 3
9- maximize not sold on seeing it dose not work on heal spell and with mod 9 comeing out and mass healing comeing i feal the man healing spells will be heal and heal mass.. so we will see i may go with tuffness
12 - quicken
15 - Imp mental toughness
and P.S.
ya 8mo ago when i quit the game i delited all my toons... thinking i would never come back.. lol well im back now just rolled so... i just can't take world of warcraft any more so hi im glad to be back it just a shame i was so stuped and deleted all my lvl 16s becuse i did not think i would come back