Not all sentences are questions. A ? helps the reader determine if something written is a question. Not to nit pick, just saying.
How do you even know that our respecs that we have is insuffucient compared to every other MMO out there? If the other MMO has only 1 type of respec to cover all that makes up a character in each individual MMO game and we have 3 types right now, how is that insuffucient? No matter if the respec is to change something from creation or later on down the road it still shows DDO has more ability to adapt then the other MMO's with their respec.
You do not have to ask who's fault it is for me to make my own statement about it, what my thoughts are on the matter.
What other MMO has that situation? None. Since there are options to fix "misclicks" or mistakes a player makes in their character, depending on the mistake. If the MMO offers a type of respec to fix it, they can use that. If not they can reroll a new character if there is no other choice available. I am sure if any of those MMO's thought it was in their best interest to allow all their players to fully respec every aspect of their character with a full respec, they might have had one...at least one MMO that has that feature. No MMO allows for that.