Correct behavior?

[dakkon75]

From what I can tell, the OP is dealing with people who decided to do something to try and correct "unsat" behavior from him and/or his guildies. Interestingly enough, it seems to be working... I haven't seen any instances of the original complaint since this started.

Of course, my viewpoint is tainted, as I've been classified by the OP as one of these "bullies". Which I find remarkably funny, considering that the only "bullying" I might have done was to disagree with him or his guildies on the forums. Oh, I challenged them to a Qwijilack GreenMart grudge match too, which they interpreted as a "back alley street fight".

How in the world does anybody associated with the Qwijimart get listed as a bully.....that is beyond my ability to comprehend.

[branmakmuffin]

I am playing a female Drow Temptress and i will be taking 2 levels of the Bondage Master PrC.

That's Bondage Mistress.

Crikey.

[branmakmuffin]

OMG that needs to go on a T-shirt.

I don't want leakage of any kind, especially that kind, on my t-shirt, but, as they say, whatever floats your boat.

Just stay down-wind.

[dakkon75]

Holy sodomy Rectal Leakage man!

OMG that needs to go on a T-shirt.

[Quanefel]

Quanafel - You and your brother both made it onto my DNP list a long time ago due to your circular anal logic. Is your logic really anal and circular? Well, in my opinion, yes. I therefore exercise my right NOT to enjoy your company for fear that in game you talk/type the same way you do on the forums.

Relax.

Sit back.

Look out the window, there are no black choppers.

Take the tin foil off your head.

Tune the TV off that static, it doesn't stop the gamma rays.

Put your fake police badge down and realise you are not the DDO police task force.

Now, try to enjoy the game.

It is spelled Quanefel, not Quanafel.

With that said, who are you again? Since you do not list your alts or guild name, I am assuming it is not even important enough for me to care. Oh well, enjoy your little boycott of me for how I write...... in a forum.

[Quanefel]

ROFL that is priceless Quanoffal.

I am not sure what you are writing, it must be that "Australian language" you are using.

[Raegoul]

It is spelled Quanefel, not Quanafel.

ROFL that is priceless Quanoffal.

[Raegoul]

At least you can openly admit how you really feel about the American players you play the game with. Bravo. I guess I am missing any australian humor in all that.

Serious question, do you understand any humour at all?

[Quanefel]

Serious question, do you understand any humour at all?

Yes, when it's funny. Why?

[Raegoul]

Well i have not seen you understand anyones humour so far only that you have taken what has been said as some kind of personal criticism of yourself or your brother.

There was obviously a great deal of humour in what people were saying in response to both you and your brother. But you both did not seem to understand the lighter side of what people were saying. Both of you have maintained a denial in the face of all communication attitude that defies all attempts at reducing the rididulous claims that the both of you have made regarding stalking, bullying and secret conspiracy theories.

You guys have been fun but i am beginning to become concerned over how far you are both willing to go to defend your absolutely righteous claims. Seriously if you cannot see that you are both railing against the community with arguements NO ONE believes then all you are doing is creating more negativity that will further increase the perception of persecution that you are both suffering from, after all this is MERELY a GAME.

[Cuchilo]

Hey, whose turn is it to follow Quimoffal around tonight? I lost the roster. Doh! I didn't post in the super-secret-conspiracy-thread.

[Quanefel]

Well i have not seen you understand anyones humour so far only that you have taken what has been said as some kind of personal criticism of yourself or your brother.

There was obviously a great deal of humour in what people were saying in response to both you and your brother. But you both did not seem to understand the lighter side of what people were saying. Both of you have maintained a denial in the face of all communication attitude that defies all attempts at reducing the rididulous claims that the both of you have made regarding stalking, bullying and secret conspiracy theories.

You guys have been fun but i am beginning to become concerned over how far you are both willing to go to defend you absolutely righteous claims. Seriously if you cannot see that you are both railing against the community with arguements NO ONE believes then all you are doing is creating more negativity that will further increase the perception of persecution that you are both suffering from, after all this is MERELY a GAME.

Let me explain something to you, humor is subjective to each person. What you find funny might not be funny to another person. That is just how it is. If humor to you means you and others can poke fun at others but do not enjoy when others poke fun back, that seems a bit hypocritical.

I noticed some of the lighter side of some comments made but just because I do not respond to each person or LOL does not mean it has passed me by. I simply chuckle to myself about it.

You seem to think it is all about stalking, bullying or secret conspiracy theories which sort of looks like an attempt to belittle what is going on. I do not need to convince anyone that people are gossiping like school girls about me or my guild. I have heard it with my own ears and that is enough for me to know its going on. If you do not want to believe people gossip about others in game, maybe you are not playing the same game because its a fact of this game. People gossip about others.

Merely a game? The game is a set of computer coding, we are talking about actions of real human being towards other human beings. I think that might be the problem. People have this mistaken belief that other players are not real, that they can act however they want because by bringing up the maxim of "It's just a game!" and acting as though any behavior towards other players is to be accepted because certain individuals who lack self control or respect of others.

If DDO could set up a server to house these certian individuals away from the rest of us mature, adult players, that would be ideal. Let these players tear each other up on their own private server so they can leave the rest of us to play the game.

[Amabel]

/showtinfoilhat on

[Quanefel]

/showtinfoilhat on

Someone might have once told me you were from someplace called Cronulla, Australia. Maybe I heard wrong?

[Fenrisulven6]

Let me explain something to you, humor is subjective to each person. What you find funny might not be funny to another person.

Example: "Oh those Aussies. When they're not hiding behind our skirts, they're biting at our ankles. Sometimes they manage to do both at once"

[Lee4416]

This matter can easily be cleared up by you actually reading what I wrote. You can feign outrage at words I never wrote all you want, I will not stop you but my words are clear enough for anyone else to read.

ok then, here is what you wrote:

If something I or a guildmate has done to you in-game then you have every right to group with who you want. If you are taking matters of opinion from a forum into the game to avoid us, that speaks volumes of your character. Really, it does. You of course will probably never acknowledge what you are doing though. That is fine.

my reply was,

Are you saying that if i have a fundamental disagreement with someone on the forums then i should pretend that it didn't happen and group merrily with them in-game. If I don't do this i am of dubious character?

Is attacking the reading comprehension of other people considered "Internet tough guy" talk? Outrage? Not even close... curious amazement would be closer to the mark.

If there is someone who annoys you or you do not want to group with, that is for you to decide.

Well thank you for allowing me to pick and choose who i will group with, how very kind.

I personally will probably never do the same as you or others by closing people off with grouping with them based off something from the forums.

Do you know who I am?? Do you have insight into what i may or may not do? If you do that is very scary. You are making wild generalisations based on your experiences with a "few" people, that cannot be good.

Even in game I generally don't do that, even some that might deserve it I give them second chances. If I was to put my foot down and say I will never group with so and so, I might be missing out on getting to know them better at a future date. Why not make the effort to keep that door open? I am not saying you or anyone else have to do this like me, I am just expressing how I would handle it.

This series of sentances above makes it seem that you are actually an OK guy. However having read your posts (just in this thread alone) i find it an incongruent statement. Perhaps it is my reading comprehension that has failed me here?

If I personally offended you or insulted you, to me that is one thing. If you simply disagree with me from the forums and take that arguement to the game, that is another matter entirely.

I don't know you, or your alts or your brother for that matter, but if the attitude that I pick up from your posts and that of your brother is any indication i am in no rush to correct that. Am i missing something? maybe... just another american egocentric PD? Maybe

Bringing disagreements into the game seems silly to me, at least.

...and here we have it... your opinion. With the sort of diplomacy and tact i have seen thus far, you should work for the United Nations.

[seldarin]

As I asked before, do all of you who write have full and 100% permission from your guild to post in forums? If not, your blowing smoke.

Sorry to say mate i dont need my guilds permission to post on forums. The only permission i need is Turbines and at the moment i still have that. This isnt a government run industry where there are laws etc, its open gaming forums.

Where would you get the idea that anyone needs their guilds permission to post on forums, thats just like real crazy idea.

[Quanefel]

ok then, here is what you wrote:



my reply was,



Is attacking the reading comprehension of other people considered "Internet tough guy" talk? Outrage? Not even close... curious amazement would be closer to the mark.



Well thank you for allowing me to pick and choose who i will group with, how very kind.



Do you know who I am?? Do you have insight into what i may or may not do? If you do that is very scary. You are making wild generalisations based on your experiences with a "few" people, that cannot be good.



This series of sentances above makes it seem that you are actually an OK guy. However having read your posts (just in this thread alone) i find it an incongruent statement. Perhaps it is my reading comprehension that has failed me here?



I don't know you, or your alts or your brother for that matter, but if the attitude that I pick up from your posts and that of your brother is any indication i am in no rush to correct that. Am i missing something? maybe... just another american egocentric PD? Maybe



...and here we have it... your opinion. With the sort of diplomacy and tact i have seen thus far, you should work for the United Nations.

"just another american egocentric PD? Maybe." That is all you needed to say in your response, it helps clear up your real beliefs for me. Thanks. How do you play this game with so many of us typical egocentric americans pray tell? It must be rough for you.

[seldarin]

I think you are greatly misinformed or something. There is NO American language, we speak, read and write in english. We take English classes as we grow up not American language classes. Keep pressing your idea, its goofy really.

Mate, any application, operating system, game etc that you or i install gives language options. Let me list some for you and see what you think.

US English
English
International English
Chinese
Japanese
US English
Russian
US English


And oh did i mention US English.

Granted yes it is English, BUT it is US English, not the same as what Canada, Great Britain and Australia use.

Let me choose a couple of words to illustrate this:

Color - US English
Colour - English
Armor - US English
Armour - English

Do you see where im going with this? Yes you may us English, BUT its AMERICAN version of ENGLISH. Words are spelt differently, things are said differently etc. IF AMERICANS used ENGLISH the way it was originally designed, then there wouldnt be a US English choice for installations would there?

Try again, you are shopping at the wrong store.

[Aranticus]