~ is definately NOT drama free.
Drama exists everywhere, but on Khyber I was very grateful to group with a lot of nice people and I was/am in a great guild 'Ransack', that had a lot of peeps who are very good at DDO and above all else - have fun when they play. ~ being one of (2) clerics on a VoD elite when I was level 13 & the other cleric was level 15 - priceless.
On Argo there are also a great number of great players, and again I am in a great guild 'Archmagi'. Seeing as how I had been leveling a noob toon on Khyber and missed a lot Mod 8's Sorjek experiences - the people here have been more than accomodating. The allegiance factors here go beyond guilds (semi-private chat channels) and is really nice.
I know Large & have grouped with him a lot and know that his playstyle & humor he brings to the party would be welcomed on either server.
I was just suggesting that rather than spending time waiting for Sarlona to be fixed, he should consider having a back-up home. And I am also suggesting that should he try another server, it may become his main...
Back to Del - I've grouped with you as well ~ and you'd have fun too
Good luck tho, playing Solitaire while you wait for Sarlona to be fixed...