TWF or UA for 14/2 pal/mnk

[Nink]

Hey guys just need some help with this build..some advice really
28pt/Drow
Str 14 +1 @ lvl4(so far)
Dex 16 +1 (tome eaten)
Con 12
Wis 12
Cha 14


Right now I am 2monk/3 paladin
Feats are: Toughness/Power Attack (monk)
Dodge and Two Weapon Fighting

My questions are this: Is it better to go unarmed, or weapons? I'm really enjoying the fast attacks of unarmed combined with the + damage of power attack..but I dont want to fall behind. Also the centered attack bonus is nice. and would Khopesh be a worthy feat to take?

Should I take weapon finesse since my dex is high?

[CraigBlack]

I have very similar questions but also one more....

Do you stick with the outfits you have as a monk or do you put on the full plate as soon as you train paladin levels? I don't have a high level monk but so far the AC is pretty decent.

Thanks.

[Nink]

Right now I'm sticking with monk equipment. with the wis bonus/dex bonus I have 25 ac...w/ +3 full plate on (not mithril) I have 26 ac. the difference is negligible.. plus it allows for wind stance (+2 dex, 10% fighting speed w/ UA) - I know thats not a big difference at higher levels but it seems to help for now.