There are no secrets to the game. Learn to take non-constructive criticisim. Dont drop group just because it is not going your way. Dont be afraid to ask questions. Dont get mad when The "Zerger" comes in and flys to completion. Learn from watching and doing. This game sucks when ya dont know the quest like the back of your hand. Please use push to talk, I do not need to hear you cough. It takes a lot of questing to get decent gear and weapons. If you do not know a quest say so. If you do not know a quest do not run ahead. Do "Buff" up. If you play a caster learn what "Aggro" is and avoid at all costs. Haste IS the greatest spell in the game. Use it, love it, and cherish the mighty haste spell. When a quest goes bad dont lay blame figure out why it went bad. If the quest goes smooth and fast figure out why. Hit points learn how to keep them. Learn to pull out of a fight BEFORE you die. Try not to take jibs and the **** talk personal, It is an important skill to craft a proper slam.
I am sure I left a bunch out, but this is a huge complex game. The anger pain and confusion are well rewarded in the end with Phat loot,XP, and good in-game friends. I do so love my addiction to DDO.