Ah.. 'My idea' was a joke.. to make a point.. Good Gods if Turbine was crazy enough to tie the group to any one player I'd hope it would at least be party leader.. not that I can think of any valid reason to do so.. And while in the strictest sense the star has control of the party it's not as simple as you seem to think.. I can't tell you how many pugs I've tired of repeatedly telling someone to stay with the group and not run ahead.. sure I could dump that guy out of the group but somehow I don't think repeatedly dumping people out of My groups for zerging is going to increase My chances of filling a group.
Have fun with the topic folks.. I asked My questions.. I thank those of you who took the time to read all of it and those of you who had helpful or interesting comments, and I'm done. Thanks! See you out there.