I definitely agree that leading is a a two edged sword. You get the glory, or you get the blame, even when you explained 5 times how it should be done, and they somehow get it wrong, and admit that they screwed up, you still feel the blame. At least I do.
I actually have toons that tend to lead and toons that tend to follow.
Dog, he follows.
Cat, he leads.
Dog being a cleric and cat being my sorc. I find it hard to follow when playing my sorc, unless i am completely unfamiliar with the run, THEN I ask many many questions and sound like a newb till i have a good idea of whats expected of my role, then i try to make it better, or more efficient.
Dog should have a minimize stupidity skill, all clerics should. In this day an age clericing(in pugs mostly) can be costly and often a cleric is the voice of reason, or should be. "hey, i dont think you wanna do that yet" immediately followed by "rez, incoming"....I know alot of PUGers dont donate to the cleric, cept those in the know, or those who run clerics. I take it as a positive sign when i get donated to.
Although this turned out to be a decent thread, my next one will address the meat of the issue.
-Dog