Finding the sweet spot can really suck sometimes. Done that in von5, luckily it was bugged too or i'd have been toast. I guess, jumping in on elite for the first time will pose problems if you've never attempted the trap before. familiarity goes a long way. As far as lag, designers can't and shouldn't try to predict it and model it into quests.
Posts in this thread haven't offered many real values to see how bad things really are. That's why i'm trying to get some real numbers to see if things are as out of wack as some are reporting.